Hi girls,
Jo - I am sorry you didnt get the answers you were hoping forI too thought answers would make it a little easier but the fact of the matter is its hard either way. Before I had answers I thought well if noone knows what is wrong then how can they be sure it wont happen again. Then I got some answers and found I had a blood clotting condition which caused my son to die and then I started worrying because I thought well there is something wrong so there is a chance it will happen again. I dont know if any of that makes sense but either way, answers or no answers, the journey ahead is terrifying and no matter what the next pregnancy will be extremely difficult. For me in the end the fear of not having a child outweighed the fear of losing another iykwim. I am glad your ob seemed so sensitive to what you are going through, believe it or not alot arent - they are in the business of babies and alot of them treat is just like that, a business!
KG - Good choice! He is brilliant!! The ob who saw me through my pg with Nicholas was also not willing to do any testing for me, he told me it was "bad luck" and "just one of those things". I then saw Mark for a second opinion and he found that I have ACa and he will be with me every step of the way this time. Best of luck with it all :hugs:
Sorry to intrude - just wanted to say that, hope you dont mind
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