Mand - I am so sorry for your loss, no one should have to go through this once let alone twice.

Judy - Vermont is a different state that is farther north than I am. It borders Canada in spots and Montreal is not far from the Canadian border. Your friend may not be traveling too long for work.

Auntie M - Thanks for your kind words. You are right about the jumble of emotions. Sometimes I can't stop crying, then am so angry I want to punch something, then can be in a state of shock about the whole thing and just feel numb. I also agree about the holidays. I am in a bah humbug moos myself.

Barbara