howdy everyone.
Judy- thanks for the for pea(nut). hugs to you.
Barbara- big hugs, sweetie. i'm so sorry you didn't get any answers. like Georgie said, it isn't fair, not at all. let those tears flow, my dear. and go ahead and punch or break something when you feel like it- just make sure it is not something you'll miss (like your hand). i shattered some glass in one of my worse moments and it was cathartic. until i had to pick up glass all over the yard so the dogs didn't get cut.
Georgie- i'd try a new site for a ticker, or cut and past a different code part. i had to try a couple of times to get the cut and paste right. it is frustrating.

i've got a stomach virus, so aren't you all happy to only know me via a computer and not in person?