Hey Georgie, sorry posted at same time - I am not sure about percentages, but I know that the more time you are unable to get pregnant it lowers you chances of conceiving naturally. But I think the percentages for IVF heavily depends on the reasons, if any, for infertility. It might be worth getting an opinion from a fertility specialist. Dont worry about cancelling with OB, if you still want to see him you can always make another time - I am sure he wont hold a grudge, he is too nice. And I have said it to you before, but you shouldnt feel like you cant visit us and talk about your own issues because we all have different experiences, everyone has their own journey and each are entitled to just as much support as the others. And in terms of not feeling better... does that day ever come? I have been waiting more than a year now, and some days I think maybe it is but then I come crashing down and realise oh yeah this still sucks big time, and always will.

Take care mate, stay in touch