howdy everyone. so quiet in here. i hope all is well, or at least not horrible.
kat- well, write her name on the cards if you feel like it and if it makes you feel better. that should be your main guide, not what your family's reaction will be. but i understand how difficult it is to choose a fitting remembrance that makes one feel right in such a wrong situation. your friend's mistake between the preg and o tests - lol - let's hope she has some vision of the future!