Hi Millie Pillie
Welcome to this thread - I am sorry you have suffered a loss recently, I am sure coming in here will help you get through the next few weeks/months.

I don't understand people when they make such awful comments - I wished we could all just be left to grieve and cope in our own ways. I know when my DH went back to work everyone ignored him - as he walked into the lab they went silent and turned away and it took him telling them to grow up for them to start treating him like normal. At my place I had people stop me in the corridor and say "how are you?" I would say fine. And they would persist with comments like "ah well better luck next time" or "you don't seem very sad" or "you got over it quickly thats good". Why don't they just leave you alone and mind there own business if they don't have anything good to say.

Sorry about that - I am getting frustrated at work with people trying to make me cry just so they an tell that yes I am still grieving. That is why I am not telling anyone about this baby and keeping it quiet for as long as possible.

Anyway enough said - welcome Millie.