Mel: Don't say sorry for not mentioning Harry's b'day. I think that it is part of the healing journey to be able to make it through those sort of days without thinking about it non-stop. Don't feel guilty. It wasn't until I got on the plane on Friday that I realised it was the 6th. I agree, it has been quiet in here and seems to have changed. I am not quite sure why. Just know that even if I haven't been posting as much, I always check on each and every one of you. I guess I am getting more stressed the further I get along and just find everything a exhausting. I think I understand what Deb means about the cave.

Jo: I am so sorry AF arrived. It is totally natural to get your hopes up so don't beat yourself up. I hope her stay is short and sweet and that a new cycle brings you a wonderful BFP.

Katti81: That is fantastic news about your scan. We'll there will be plenty of going on at your place this cycle. Good luck hun, I have everything crossed for you.

Klee: Phew about the work access, I am so glad that it isn't banned. About OPK's, they can be confusing things. Were your cycles previously regular, Deb is the Dr. OPK's so hopefully she has some more useful advice for you.

Deb: Wow, that sign from Col sent a wonderful feeling through my body. That is just amazing, I know that your Col will be victorious!!! You are doing so very well during your *scary* time and I know that this Friday will come and this Friday will go and little Col will be perfectly happy in mumma's tummy. Give yourself a hug for me.