Yeah but see thats the thing, it didnt really feel right at the time. Like when things come even close to something like that I kind of try to cover up and then just keep babbling and in the end it just spills out and once it starts to spill I get all nervous and I dig my hole deeper and deeper iykwim. I know what you mean about people not realising what a still born baby would look like, but she has actually had 2 children of her own who are now in their early 20's so I sort of thought she would have a fair idea that a 36 week baby would look just like a baby (as your friend said). But anyway, I sound like I am upset with her but I am really not - I am sure she didnt expect the conversation to go that way and she was probably quite shocked. I will try not to be too hard on myself but I am a little nervous about going in tomorrow What if she has told people? I dont think I could handle all of those "looks"... you know the ones

Anyway I am being a thread hog tonight so I will shut up now