Tommysmum: I loved your post. It is so very true that we just don't often get it as humans until we have experienced the pain. The gift that this unthinkable tragedy does give us is an awarenes and understanding of grief. The reality of how fragile this life is and how we need to sieze the moment and live a life that is loving.
Again, your post was beautiful - thankyou for sharing... How are you going? How many weeks are you now? You will have to get a ticker so we can all keep track!

I am a bit snookered today - had a big one we have been down to the coast for DS footy and then to the beach for a swim and fish and chips.

i will pop back tomorrow.

Special thoughts and a very big hug and a cyber cuppa for you Spring...