I forgot to say - with twins you get two baby bonuses - one for each baby. We didn't qualify because its means tested but you will qualify and that will help A LOT. Also contact Wanslea now. They send in someone for a couple of hours per day to help. This is also means tested so if you are low income it costs barely nothing and an extra pair of hands and some company will be invaluable to you. Let us know when you know what kinds of twins you are having - thisnmakes a big difference? I think you said one was natural and the other from a FET so this would make them fraternal and they could be different sexes. It also means your preg will be far less complicated.

As for Xmas day. We don't do much because we go away the next day - but I would be happy to come and visitnyou for an hour and bring some food - totally up to you no one should be alone at Xmas.

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