I organized most of my own with ds 1 and it was great. I had friends I asked to organize some games and my mum helped me with the food. Dh hung around for a little while to make everyone coffee and then he left. I also threw one really for a friend who didn't have one for her first. She loved it. We had cake pops and dips and stuff. Was great. If you wasn't to have one start organising it and you'll be suprised at how many people offer to help :-)