I would definitely throw something for yourself. It's a fantastic opp to catch up with people & have some yummy food & just an afternoon with the girls to chat 'babies' & stuff.

I just had one on Sunday - no games or anything, just lovely food & champers /wine & was great to see my friends & chat/relax & feel a bit special too.I wouldnt think twice if someone threw a gathering for themself.

Most friends will ask if they can bring something to help aswell.

Good luck x