i was thinking of having money instead of gifts for my wedding but awhile ago SIL was showing me one of her friends wedding invites and when she come to the money tree poem she said she thought it was tacky people asking for money.

What does everyone think? What was or would be your reaction if u were asked to give a gift of many not a present (in a nice way)

please be 100% honest. we would be looking to put the money towards some of our honeymoon.