Here's a copy of the poem we used - Just on a little piece of paper the same size as a business card.
We've been together forever - so nobody could think of what to get us!

You will always get those who lke to buy a gift, which is why we started with that - If you word it properly, it shouldn't be offensive.
In the end, I think if people are going to think its tacky, then they just will.
You can't please everyone!


'To support us on our special day, you may wish to follow tradition & bring us a gift.
Alternatively, you may like to help us make our honeymoon a little more special.
For this reason, we have chosen a wishing well.
The wishing well will be at the reception where we can receive your best wishes and contribution.
We look forward to you celebrating with us.'

Good Luck!!!