I must be old-fashioned.....I'm not that keen on the idea at all. And I've never had anyone ask for money, just vouchers. But you know what, you'll never please everyone, so do what makes you happiest. I personally like to buy a gift for someone, or contribute to a registry like a honeymoon one, maybe you could do that, if the money is for the honeymoon anyway? And don't be surprised if some people give you a gift anyway, I know a number of people who do that because they refuse to give money.

HTHs and enjoy your wedding