I've been married twice.

The first one was with all the bells and whistles including 130 guests,in the church where my parents and grandparents were married, the big white dress, honeymoon in Hawaii, 3 brides maids 2 flowergirls the whole shebang! It lasted 2 years.

My second wedding was in Scotland on the edge of a Loch overlooking a ruined castle, I arrived in an Austin Martin (my Husbands favourite car from the Bond movies),I arrived to be greeted by a lone piper, we had just 20 guests including family,the wedding "reception" was held in a 15th century pub on the banks of the Spey River in Aviemore, we had a celtic band danced till dawn and had the time of our lives! We've been married 9 years have a precious son and a little princess on the way. Our wedding and it was the best party ever and I am lucky to say I married my best friend and a man who is the most wonderful father I could have asked for.

Lots of money spent and a big fancy wedding doesn't make a marriage...