Ours cost close around $25k.
My wedding band was $5k and DH's was $1500... so there is a fair amount just there.
We had a small wedding... 50 guests... and all family.
We married on the beach, and had our reception at a waterfront resort... we spent the night before there in separate rooms and then the night of our wedding we spent there in their honeymoon suite type room.
We bought our bridesmaids their dresses, and the groomsmen their suits as a gift ($200 each)
We didn't have a honeymoon as we both couldn't get the time off work
We had the best time... and we would do it again in a heartbeat!!!