We had 35 people (including us and the girls) on a Sunday lunch time. I think all up it cost us about $5000. We didn't have professional photo's, just the pics our friends took, which ended up being beautiful, we didn't have a DJ or anything like that and I asked everyone to bring a flower to make up my bouquet (my sister quickly put it together before I arrrives. My dress was on sale (half price), and I spent about $200 having it altered to fit my 26 week pregnant tummy! My mum made the cake, and we had lunch in a resturant at a winery.

It was a perfect day and I wouldn't have had it any other way. All our friends and family said it was a great day, very intimate and relaxed. I would not have felt comfortable spending a lot of money on one day, and instead would prefer to spend money on our mortgage, or our childrens' education.