just keeping this bumped for you. I organised stuff for my dads headstone in 2006, but I can't remember many details, sorry Hun. I do remember that it was exxy though, and that in my grief stricken state (I was still 15, dunno why people thought it would be a good idea for me to do it) I put his death date one month early Still haven't had the money to fix it I assume it was through a headstone company, but I honestly can't remember. Hope someone can help you