Yeah, you're right BG, that's one of the other things that plays on my mind. Do I want it by a deadline (yes!) or do I want the best I can get (yes!)? I suppose a little of it is a kind of jealousy as well - there's a few headstones in "our area" already, and we're only just coming up to the one-year anniversary of that bit opening. Even the two little boys that have been put in after Ianto have plaques (though I've decided I definitely want a headstone, not a plaque)