I was pregnant for my 18th & 21st, so for my 18th all I did was put $10 in the pokies & my dad cooked me a steak. For my 21st DH & I went out for lunch where I enjoyed a glass of champagne & then had pizza delivered for tea. I had a party for my 22nd instead, but still didn't go over board. DH got me a 3 piece outdoor setting & my mum got me a diamond necklace for my 21st. A friend engraved a champagne glass for me, but that's all i remember getting. I think someone gave me a nice candle from the $2 shop & someone else gave me a plant pot that was an unwanted prize, but i think the most important thing is that I did it the way I wanted & I had the people there I cared about.
What I got & what I did aren't what's important. It's who was there to celebrate with me.