Leasha,

Just rang DH to get the wording I used I have a few other ideas we had too if you want them to keep the costs down. Also mine was put togther in 6 weeks beacuse we were moving to QLD.


Dear ..........


We would like you to share in our specail day with us on

Date
Venue
Etc

Your prence is the only present we need however if you would like to give us the gift of your presnece at dinner please join us at the xxxxx with the gift of the cost of your meal.

I arranged with the restranunt a specail deal of about 40 a head with 3 choices and everyone RSVP'd with thier menu choice so the venue could have all the meals ready and it also made paying the bill easy for everyone. We attached the menu to the invite with a RSVP card for Cermoney and Dinner and then dinner options hope this helps