I would want surprise everything. I got d, discussed engagement, surprise ring. In fact it was meow like assumed proposal without an official will you marry me. We just both knew the other wanted it and just said we were...then my Xmas pressie was a ring (which even though he knew the type of ring I wanted - small, not flashy or blingy at all because you had to see the planned tattoo). So was the perfect ring even tho he did it all himself.