how rude! i hate that!

seriously, how hard is it to RSVP?!?!?

for DD1's 1st birthday, none of my family RSVP'd but they all turned up. mum said 'i bet they still turn up..' so i just dropped a few comments 'oh, i hope i have enough food, i didnt get many RSVP's' lol even though i did cater enough.

fair enough if you say you'll be there, then come down sick. just send another text and say 'really sorry but im sick and cant make it' (ok, maybe worded a bit nicer but you get the drift lol)