3) Careful of November weather in Melbourne! My day was a bit grey but I didn't mind so much as its waay better for the photography. Have a lovely wrap jic.

4) Absolutely find something 'borrowed' to belt the MIL with. I like the tuna idea but it might be a bit smelly. Could you make a second bouquet, load it with rocks and PELT it at her? Just remember to look shocked when she goes down and blame the florist.

I'd go to a wedding no matter what day of the week it is. Its your choice and who'd be so cranky to whine about it? Take a day off work people! 2 months is just about right for the invites, I did mine about then to cover the interstate guests. It chasing the RSVPs that will drive you mad anyway.