As it's about time I started doing something about it..

DF and I are getting married. We are aiming for next year, but due to lack of planning I don't know (only cause I've had to focus all my time on uni this year)
But...we are going for soemthing really out there and different

This is our basic plan, but the logisitcs are what we really need to focus on, so if ppl could share their experiences and any tips etc that owuld be great, even if you say thats totally crazy and wont work, cause maybe thats what we need =P
First off I want to be married at night under a full moon. so the ceremony would have to be about 7 or 8 pm, depending on what time of year... I want a small ceremony, like just 10 ppl (mainly direct family and a select few)
But with our reception we want to have a huge open party drunken shingding that anyone can come too..
so I think the first problem is how do you tell ppl (nicely) they are invited to the reception not the wedding?
also as with the full moon dates, next year the full moons occur mid week...so we were thinking of having the ceremony midweek, then the reception on the sat (so a few days after the ceremony)
anyone had there ceremony and reception on different days?
My DF also wants to get married in a cemetery...I'm keen for the idea so we have been road tripping to find the perfect one, one with lots of couples and prefereably smaller and with people with both our names. Does anyone know the legal side? can you just pick a site and get married or do you have to get permission to use certain sites etc??

I think that would do for now! thanks so much in advance!!!!!!
(ps. i've posted this same post of a few different forums)

EDIT: with the cemetery, we are going to be very respectful...like not actually stand on peoples graves etc... but still in the grounds. (sorry if this offends anyone)