We're undecided. I'd be happy to do beer and wine but with spirits then it gets too much, i think, i don't know. My friends 21st that had 120 guests (big italian family) spent $1500 on alcohol and still had more than half left over, so when I look at it like that it's probably not too much more to include.
I need to make myself a new folder with a bunch of maybe yes no heaps of things in it. Im feeling overwhelmed already!

ETA: lol no not irish... but have not inviting many drinkers... of the sixty so far on our guest list almost half are family that wont drink, ten kids... when i look at it that way providing alcohol doesnt look like a big deal. Thanks for making me think