I'm like Lily Dust, for some reason for me being married and then having children felt right. That being said if a whoopsie had of happened it wouldn't have been the end of the world. For me personally I'm glad I did get married and then have children, I like that we all have the same surname and I feel like we all belong together we are the R****** family. I think it made it easier to change my name as I moved to my husbands hometown and no one new me anyway. It would have been harder to change my name if I lived in an place and everyone new me by my maiden name.

I'm suprised myself that I did feel strongly about marriage as I grew up with parents who had a volatile marriage, and have now gone through a bitter divorce.