To each and every onw of you THANKYOU. You all have written exactly what I needed.
Feeb - you are so right, flexible hours is what I need
Nic, I feel like so much of my worry about the cops is wasted and could be spent on my family so you're right, it's a good thing.
Pix I am going to find a better solution! Too Right!
Kaz, funny thing is I've actually been off since January, so I made the change a long time ago - I thinks it's the safety net that will be gone that's scary (I'm still getting paid...)
Thanks Epacris, hugs I have been needing plenty of today
Kate hun, that is exactly why I want to do it.
I can't have any more babies and I don't want to miss any more....

Thankyou thankyou thankyou all agin