Tom has just started to cry so i dont have time to reply realyy but just wanted to say Lea, that sometimes they are upset as they arent going enough. Grace was 4 and went mondays, talk to her monday night and she wanted to go again the next day, by thursday she didnt want to talk about the place and then come sunday night there would be tears....we put her in on a thursday too and WOW loved every minute of it from that day on weird i know but it worked????