hey just a quick note probably as the little man is stirring.. but i have been really moved by all your stories in response to my question (e.g. thebear - that photo soo made my eyes well up, that is such a full on special and emotional photo) and your posts have made me realise how much we have to process after the birth - like get our heads around everything that's happened and talk about the birth and remember different things over time (just yesterday i remembered something little that i hadn't since the birth!).

I can't imagine being left alone in a room by myself leasha and thepixie after the birth. leasha - I have heard your experience is really common for women who have a c-section - like the whole bonding side of things as well - but i am glad you are working through everything *hugs*.

mm - hope you hear news from the report soon. i hate it when i dont get to read reports arghh.

must go sorry, time to bf.

*hugs* to everyone xox