Scone - keep going with the TT - don't worry about others. If you can do it early, why not? My MIL tells me my DH was toilet trained by 1! Just try and tune them out.
Goodluck with work, I cannot imagine how hard it has been going back before now, so well done to you!

Kim - fingers crossed for you. I'm sorry I don't know about what you are going through, just wish you all the best.
Thanks for the advice on why they are waking. I think Ella does wake up more if I leave the house at some point, whether day or night and I am not there when she wakes up. She's not too clingy, but seems to want to know I am around.

I think another tooth is coming (2nd bottom tooth) and she is just grumbly. It doesn't help when I find her brother has put a toy down the back of her jumpsuit this morning. That made her cry.