Oh, Snowgirl, i hope you had fun!

And Nadine. Im sorry i cant help you there, ben only used a dummy for the first couple of weeks, he is a thumb sucker. He doesnt seem to be attatched to anything either (like a teddy or blanket).

Im also looking at buying a toddler behaviour book. Ben has started acting up a little bit, and i have no idea how to stop him from doing things he isnt supposed to be doing (hitting or getting into things). Since telling him off doesnt do any good, he doesnt understand, and "NO!" is funny apparently. I refuse to smack him.... Wow, im so looking forward to the "terrible twos", Not. Any good books out there?