Tenny.. always give after a bottle as formula is most important in their diet until they are 12 months. Solids are just to get use to it iykwim. With Jesse his first lot of solids i gave during the middle of the day (say lunch time) so that if it effected him in any way i would see before he went to bed that night. But then when he started on 2 meals a day i moved the farex to breakfast and the other to either lunch or dinner. If i was starting a new food he would have it at lunch so again could see if it effected him. So by the time he was having 3 meals it was Farex for breakfast, fruit for lunch and vegies for dinner. But again always after the bottle. If you find hes too full straight after the bottle.. leave the solids for 1/2 an hour and then give them to him.
No i didnt say anything back to her, though now i wish i did.. but when it comes up again i will be. Yeh i know. I dont know what has changed in my mum since Jesse was born but man she aint the same person no more.