hey fee im sorry about your sat remember it dose hurt them if the cry for 5 min they teand to go off after a cry i now bailee will cry for me to help him go to sleep and at first i run to him everytime he cryed and it wasnt fair so next time bailee cryed when i wanted him to sleep i left him i cam back 5 min later gave his dummy didnt talk to him walked away another 5 min went back gave dummy walked off after 3 times doing this he relized i wasn't going to pick him up or rock him to sleep and he went off
im not trying to tell ya wat to do and fee if you think this im sorry have a go at it it may just help
with my step son my hubby wants to see him every second sunday which i dont mind