DSD and DP arrived safely! There was some jealousy to begin with - seeing her daddy kissing and cuddling someone other than her must of been hard I admit but has since really warmed to the idea of becoming a big sister! I think Coop has handled it really well too, let's face it he has barely seen his daddy and there is someone else wanting a piece of him too! Very overwhelming being passed around like a football from dad to sissy, back to dad, over to sissy again! We have managed to squeeze in a few 'fun' things in the time DSD has been here - for DSD fun = money being spent on her! We have been to the movies (twice), sugarworld (a waterslide park), tenpin bowling and gokarting. Not a cheap 4 days!! DSD threw the biggest tantrum at toysrus, she has already asked DP for a ripboard (some fancy smancy expensive skate board thing) and he told her she might get it for XMAS and because we were buying Coop a jolly jumper she thought she deserved it there and than.. i normally try to keep out of there arguements but couldnt help but say "wouldn't you be sad if dad bought it for you now and than on xmas you got nothing?" her response "like mum would let him not get me anything" attitude plus, 7 going on 17 i tell ya! I sent the two of them (DSD & DP) out this morning, I got a horrible phonecall from a GF in Coffs and needed time by myself. She was 5 months pregnant and developed an infection that resulted in her having to induced, bub didnt make it She has a 5 yr old daughter and has been TTC since Freya was 1. She has had numerous miscarriages so is no stranger to loss but to have gotten so far along this time.. just devastating! They cremate him on Monday and she seems to think that will bring some closure... so sad! DP flies back to Sydney with DSD tomorrow - im still spittin chips over that - and I am hosting 'our' friends for the footy final GO THE STORM - if his return flight isn't delayed he should be home by the time everyone is ready to leave. I am thinking I shall leave the washing up for him seeing as how I have to prepare and cook everything with bub to contend with. So that's my update, have run out of time for personals, next time perhaps!