Hi Girls,
Bath ....Glad you had a great weekend away, and ohhh a day spa sounds divine, wish I lived closer Your right about your advice to Mayaness, through all that has happened in the past 3 and a half year my kids have been left out of the loop and thats the way I want it. I'm sure they have an ikling of what's going on but it is not really discussed with them or around them.
IK.... Hope you have a lovely swim with your sister and neice and eeewwwweee to the nordy doggy, lol
Rory... How's work going this time around, big belly rubs babe. Grrrr to the early start. Does it mean you finish early??
Donna...:hugs: sweety, how are you feeling today? It can be very stressful in the first year as Bath said and I agree he needs some positive male influences to show him the light. He really hasn't shown much interest in being a daddy has he, he seems really self absorbed. My DH played golf the first year of our marriage and continued to go out with his brother's ans a mate, well I got jack of it and cracked a right old narna. I was fortunate DH saw the error of his ways and well the rest is history and he is the most doting dad around and isn't to bad on the end of vaccumm either. I think men in general find the transistion from virtual freedom to father/ husband hard. You got married even though you had all these issues so may be there is something worth hanging onto there, Communication is definitely the key. You need to tell him how you feel or perhaps even write it out and put it on the toilet wall , or make it positive by writing ten things that make you happy and get him to do the same and make sure you do atleast two things on that list for each other each day. Tell him you want it to work but that you both need to fix it or walk away, Tell him you want to fix it and be the first to do two things on his list. Don't play into the blame game (even though we all know he is, humour him, if this is what you want.) My Gradmother bless her heart told me that a marriage is not 50 50 it's 125 to 75, you should always give more then you expect to receive and you will always receive more then you expect. It's good advice. and so very true.