Thanks Rory and Ali for your wise and kind words.

Hope everyone had a fun weekend.

I am pleased to say the temperatures (and the humidity) have dropped up here and it is now the beautiful northern weather I like at this time of the year - if only my boys could get over this cold they have so we could enjoy it a bit more. At least Samuel had a full nights sleep last night so whatever annoyed him Saturday night has resolved thankfully.

Bath (and anyone else who knows they've had there last child) - how do you know the difference between being just clucky over babies while being secure in the knowledge you're not having anymore children and actually knowing you're not "finished" so to speak(I may have asked this question previously can't remember - and please if you don't feel comfortable sharing that's fine - just battling with it myself at the moment (cause I know DH isn't super keen on anymore) and looking for tothers perspectives.