bath- what is a mother assistent I can guess she come out to help, but is she groverment funded or private. Its just I have never heard of them before and after been a sahm for 7 yrs with a DH who is always away I thought she would have been useful to late now though thats why I want to move to melb so I can ring up mum and dad when I need a break.

It only accourd to me the other day DH and I havent been out with out the kids in 7 yrs and I have never been apart form them unless they are at school which at this stange is only DS, no wonder I am so tired all the time, and feeling very nevess about may going to school.