Hi all

ewol - glad your hubby is ok. must have been so scary

laurab- glad feeding is improving

Rustygirl- Woo on the self settle, e is a long way from that. But I enjoy our cuddles to sleep and TBH I am just happy is is sleeping at hte moment

Mel- Hi

Reenie - bugger about the fine/suspension but one week has gone. For your shopping in SA you can get home delivery if that makes it easier. You go shop, pick out what you want and they deliver it later when you want. But you don't have to mention that to your hubby if you don't want .

Hi to everyone I have missed

Things are much better here. I have started E on formula top ups and the day time sleeps have increased and he is generally so much happier. I had no idea he was hungry. The last few nights have been crap but I think he may have been cold. It is a lot of work doing the top ups, htough only 2-3 a day usually but is worth it. E is sleeping longer than 20-40mins. He will sometimes sleep for 2ish hours in the afternoon without waking. REally great for us. nights still need some work but we will get there.