Im with you Trina, i do what she needs, if she is hungry i feed her, if shes not i leave her... After all i can only take her cues... the night time stuff too, she i s normally buggered by 8.30pm and although it is a blessing that she is sometimes sleeping until 6am i am sure that it will not last.

Danni - i tried getting her into a routine but she got really unsettled, it was awful. That book that Shell mentioned a couple of days ago - the vcontented baby or something like that, suggests that if you are going to do a strict routine to do 3 hours apart, but that also means that if you are not gong to cluster feed in the evenings, she possibly wont sleep as long. good luck

Thanks Prama, just got back from the airport, will email her with the details later... the cave sounds great!