thanks sj - no worries.
im not going to let him cry again like that... it's madness...
he settled a bit better last night. not sure if it was all that crying from the other night, or we've put him in a sleeping bag with just a top. thot it might make him more snug.
he sleeps on his tummy too.
when he's really restless, we do put him in our bed.. but dont want to make it into a habit.
having said that, he wakes up at 4.30, for a feed, then 5ish as soon as it's light and he grizzles a lot (cant settle him). so we just put him in our bed and he sleeps straight away for another 2 hrs.

have to run..

Lakshman's 9 whole months today!!!!!!!!!!