Caro what is Oskar's twins weight now? lol...that's a little bit of a mouthful sometimes.

Rachel, sometimes Oskar likes being on his tummy and other times he chucks a tanty about it. I'm not sure if it depends on how soon after a feed or if he's got wind or what. Sometimes he's happy to even have a nap on his belly. A platter with cheese and celery etc sounds nice

Karina, I don't like dummies either, but it has meant I can do the groceries or tie him over till I stop the car when driving at times. I'm hoping that I can get him to not need to have it soon. I don't speak to my dad either...not that he's asked my brother or mum for any pics of Oskar or anything to do with me. His loss anyway.

Sasha, sounds like Sebastian is doing well which is great to hear!! It's good you have some nice mums to share some time with, nothing like a good chat over a cuppa!!

Today we went to some new mother's group thing which is done through Qld Health and the HCN was a bit of a funny one. She's older and came across a lot of the time as though she was telling everyone what to do IYKWIM? Like, next week we are going to talk about sleeping etc cos it seems that most of the babies in our group don't like to sleep much in the day on their own. Now, we all did say that we don't have an issue with this cos they sleep pretty well at night, but she doesn't seem to retain this information...lol...so it's a little frustrating. I figure though that if I hear something I wish to use I will and if I don't then I'm getting out of the house for a couple of hours and interacting with adults so it's all good either way.

Does anyone else have issues with partners upsetting the apple cart... eg... Oskar was quite happy in his rocker this arvo while I was making dinner but Andy decided to straighten him up as he was leaning to the side... before I could stop him he'd upset Oskar by moving him and so I couldn't eat my dinner without getting up all the time. Now he's just picked Oskar up out of bed cos he started grizzling... but he would've gone back to sleep. I am really frustrated right now cos I know he means well and I don't want to say something again cos I already did about the rocker cos I don't want to sound like I'm picking on everything ...but I'm the one who ultimately has to deal with it. Oskar would've slept through till 3-4am but now who knows what he's going to do...!!! GRRRR...I better go and sort it out. I was having a good day till this evening cos Oskar even slept without me having to hold him and was happy in his rocker which usually he isn't!! I even got to wash my hair without him screaming. *sighs* Speak to you later.