Karina - how much EBM do you give Claire for a feed. in my book it says for 8-12 week old : -150ml per kg and then by the number of feeds? but i dont know if im doing i right because i am giving Kaiden about 180mls per feed of EBM. In the book it works out to be 120ml which i think is not enough for him. ??? WIsh ur DH a happy birthday for 2moro. have fun on your dinner. I hope claire has a good sleep for you today, K is an awesome sleeper during the day and night. i have him in the pram at the moment so i can push him when he grizzles he sleeps longer in the pram than in his cot during the day.