Jess thanks, that was the first thing i did, was blow in is mouth but im not sure it helped, to be honest most of it is just a blur atm, but the ambo's said we did all the right things, keeping him upright etc and patting his back. The weird thing is he was upright when it happened not lying. We really dont know how it all happened and i have been going over and over it in my head all day trying to think if there was anyway we could have prevented it but i honestly can say i dont think there was anything we could have done. I was holding him when it happened walking to the couch to feed him, he wasnt on the floor, he hadnt just been fed, i just changed his nappy was about to feed him before putting him to bed.