Ooohhh... tough call Leanne....

It would have to be pretty damn good for me to do either.

Yariv & I were apart (separate countries) for 15 months while he got another visa. I saw him in the 3rd month, but didn't see him or have any computer/email contact with him for 12 months (just phone & sms). But we weren't married then...and obviously no kids.

I think it would be really hard to be apart from your DH when you have a child.
But I think it would also be really hard to pack everything up and relocate for 9 months. What about your job? What do you do with the home you are living in?

9 months could go really quickly - or really slowly. Hey... think of your pregnancy... that's about 9 months.

Can't offer you any advice. I guess it depends on what would result from it all, how much support you have at home if you don't go, what are the consequences if you do go (job/home).....


ooohhh Elissa.... I'm so happy that Archie is saying "love you". I can't wait for Shaun to say it.

Sheree... :hugs: to you. You have had such a tough year. You must be such a strong person. Any mere mortal would have gone nuts by now. Hang in there... this too will pass. I believe that you are dealt bad hands to make you strong & appreciate the good times. And I'm sure you will have good times in abundance very soon (hey - you're having another baby - that's a start!)