Ashlee if he hasn't done hesjob, just refuse 2 c him next time, u dont need 2 feel like crap 4 no reason.
Shell i wasn't expecting 2 travel until my 40's or at least my kids have left home, if i have anymore, has i've had a bubs when most ppl r traveling. But my parents have got a sudden burst of generosity (sorry cant spell) so im taking them up on there offer b4 they change there minds!