You could be pregnant. The withdrawal method isn't actually very reliable as a form of contraception because even if he withdraws in time there is still a certain amount of, um, er, leakage. On the other hand, you could just be making yourself nervous and that's making you sick, or you could have picked up a bug. Or you could be pregnant

Tan- that's great one of the other mums is pregnant. It will be lovely for you to have two bubs each growing up together.

Thanks for the hugs girls. Feeling pretty sorry for myself at the moment. The great news is that my parents have sold their house and will have moved back to Perth by the time Ned is born, which is a huge relief. Izzy is so independent a lot of the time with her play but she is still just such a baby, so it will be great to have Mum around to help me. Mum came up to visit yesterday and Izzy was so happy to see her - she kept crawling to Mum to be picked up and was so happy playing with her all day long. So nice to see and such a difference from how she is with DH's parents. It makes me angry and upset at times that my parents live 150kms away but make sure that its never more than 10 days or so that they see Iz, but DH's parents who live maybe 5kms away can go weeks without bothering to see her, but then have the nerve to say they don't see her enough! Very annoying.

Anyway, whinge over. Have a great day everyone