Lulu! Im so happy for you! Now you know that its just Elena being cheeky, knowing she will get mummy if she makes a fuss. She hang in there hun you are much stronger then me, I would give in much to easy!
The UK guest.......If she keeps going I would just drop a comment, not rude just to get your point accross. I understand she's only there for a few days but you have been going through alot and dont need an extra stress. You can be polite but stern

Yay for the toys!!!! Annabelle would like them but she's more of a wiggles girl

very happy for you and your family sticking together and getting through this, you'll be stronger and better off because of it.
I also wish we all lived closer!