hear ya Jols!! and my solution to that one was to do exactly what Blanche said - go out for the day or 5hours of it at least, and left him to it! One question he asked me was how do you go to the toilet, or have a shower??!!?? lol he has a much better appreciation for it now - and on the up side, because he NEVER wants to loose face, he will do it again for me on his next day off. To turn around to me and say "god I don't now how you do it" would be admitting defeat on his part, and he is too stubborn to do that! he did get though that unless he is asleep or in the high chair, not alot else can get done! lol

so book yourself a massage girl- its sophie's thank you for having me present to you ok??!??? and leave her at home with DH for a few hours.